How to make peace with relationships?


Who would complain about peace and harmony with relationships? Have you ever wondered what are the main reasons conflicts occurred?

“Of such, at the very root cause, it has to do with the idea of putting a judgment on someone, just because anything that we do not agreed within us create resistances. And this dis-harmonies our well being.”

“As we stop judging anything, we create harmony within ourselves and this creates harmony with our surrounding.” BECAUSE when we judge someone, within ourselves we already create the possible block towards our future relationships. Try stop judging the person that you always have negative interactions with, and you will notice the improvement in the relationship.


Gardening is very similar. Stop judging the plants on how they should grow and you would feel disappointed if they do not grow as what you should expect. This happens when the plants just didn’t thrive. Instead we should do best what we can and let them grow with acceptance. These are one the fast grower philodendrons. They are amazing and have beautiful foliage.



有时候,我们的梦想和目标就像是不可能完成的任务,而这条路似乎就像是“一百万英里的旅程”。就像这辈子我们无法完成的事情。这种想法常常导致人们在尝试之前就放弃了梦想。 天使说:“成功的关键不是看尽头,而是看待自己所在的位置。每天采取的微小步骤会使您离梦想越来越近。随着时间的推移,您将能够实现所有目标最终,您会意识到自己已经实现了自己的梦想和目标!” 一次迈出一小步就足以为我们的梦想设定目标。不要因为看得太远而受到影响和不知所措。目前,一切都在您的进度中。 让我们一起努力吧。


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Our intention is simple, simply share joy and happiness and feel the “Shamballa” within us, where heaven on earth is right now at the present moment.

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Change For Good…

Nothing changes if nothing changes. Being too comfortable in life is a sign that is showing us that we are being afraid to grow. Even a subtle “new adventure” promote so many different opportunities that not only will creates extensive experience but a chance to expand our consciousness. Take a small step at a time. What new are there for me? Attend a new spiritual class? Join a new gym program? Make new friends? Ample…. 😅

Happy Sunday peeps!

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The Initiation of Healing…


Healing is what most people would want for, in overcoming what is hurting us, to feel good, complete and healthy. Healing is a natural process, our mind, soul, emotion and physical naturally programmed to do so, given our complex yet simple buildup. There is no one would say I do not want to be healed, or I do not want to initiate healing within me, unless otherwise there is such resistance and program within oneself to halt the urges to heal or what we would say the initiation of healing.

There can be many many types of resistance to name a few, anger, resentment, losing personal power, jealousy, and etc, you get the idea, those feelings that do not make you feel good. For all that matters, there is a prime factor that is able to set free all these characteristic of bad emotions; namely forgiveness. Which name the initiate step towards healing, the first step to take to dissolve these bad emotion within.

Forgiveness leads the way to be able to remove all resistance and block within oneself, no matter what the resistance will be, that will than work on later, but we need to be ready to forgive first.


(1) Forgiveness are able to change the past. Remember what recite within us only valid within us. Some past occurrence, may be experience differently within each individual even it may happen for the same time and place and same people. (Some say the cup was half filled but some say it was half empty). By willing to see things from a different perspective, changed what had happen, and initial healing process. When you are willing to see the same incident from a different angle, you start to heal!

(2) Forgiveness open up the channel of all possibilities. We create our desired future. Someone who tells you that you do not! Please stop talking to them. Stop the mindset of being a victim and put blames on others (You can read more here) and start taking responsibility of your own reactions. When forgive, we stop judging what is right and wrong, we open up possibility of healing even for the future.

(3) Forgiveness, ground you! Making you be brave to live in the present. When you changed your perspective of the past, and you stop worrying of the future because you know you own them. You are able to live in the now that create the most beautiful healing energy within.

These are direct and simple sharing we hope that we are able to make them applicable for you human mankind, as really forgiveness is not a connection of more than one individual, it is all within. I forgive someone, that does not make sense in many context because someone would not be interference with the process of your healing and your well being. Let us know if you are intend to connect more of such and make this process more beautiful, healing is a natural process. Look within and bring our future forward.

Love & Light

White Flame (Serapis Bey) & Lady Portia

Little things about me…

Kevin Gan begin to set his foot into his spiritual journey during his teens, always fascinated with the beauty of crystals, gems and essential oils; curiosity lead him into discovering much more of the universe. Going through many phrases of life, he now walks sharing the understanding that, when we realize we have been through the darkness then we will be able to give attentiveness towards the light. It is all about the courage of acknowledging our fears, and to overcome our chosen lessons. This will lead us to expand together on this earthly plane and co-create a heaven on earth. He now works primarily with the angels and the archangels, also some of the ascended masters and other galactic/cosmic beings , and continuously expanding his consciousness in co-creating workshops, energy sprays and healing sessions.

If you would be interested in a oracle reading workshop that he will be conducting this June 2019, kindly click here for more information.

New Sprays Launching!

With very much blessing from the angels and also Mr. Yu Jing from Samaritan Tarot & Oracle (Singapore) and Mr. Justin from (Singapore) , we will be able to make available two new sprays I’m Enough! Spray and Starlight’s Spray in the Love & light Festival this 10th – 12th May 2019 at Marina Bay Sand Singapore.

We will also have a few more other sprays make available at the festival.

Check out the amazing festival! Have fun!


Our I’m Enough! spray promotes feelings of appreciation and deep gratitude to evoke positive energy and vibration. When we feel that we have enough, is when blessings will effortlessly and continuously keep coming.

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Our Starlight’s spray will inspire your spirit and increase your vibration of receiving creative ideas and new concepts. Just like sitting in a night sky with full of stars!

Filled with #essentialoil of #Balsamfir #Cedarwood #Lime #Vanilla #Peppermint and #Elixir Auralite23

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With great intention just spray at a space or around an individual! #energyspray #overacupofcoffee

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Songkran Water Fiesta in Jade Hills Merchant Market

We will be joining the Songkran Water Fiesta in Jade Hills Merchant Market @ Kajang with our Oracle Readings, Crystal’s jewelries and Energy Vibration Sprays this weekend 17/03/2019 Sunday 3pm – 9pm.

There are other very interesting merchants including Senri’s Pet Communications & Essential Oils, Fashions, FNBs, Performances, Music and lifestyles (40-50 booths).

With much in sharing, please come have fun!


Goddess Guidance Oracle Reading 07/08/17-13/08/17


This week oracle reading 07/08/17-13/08/17, we will be working with a 3 cards spread with the Goddess Guidance Oracle Cards from Doreen Virtue for assistance and guidance.

The Goddesses are angelic, powerful, loving beings who want to help us with every part of our life. If you feel drawn to the goddesses, this deck will resonate very much with you providing messages to improve our life, health, relationships, finances, career and spiritual path.

We herewith pray for an answer for what are the messages that might help us all in general for our readers in OveracupofCoffee New age and to whoever attracts to read.

1. The origin card, Focus Intention (Diana): We set or vision, goal and dream, but we have forgotten about our intention. We forget about what our real motive in doing such actions. This is case we might even feel that our thoughts, feelings and actions wavering and in a constant shifts and changes. How to we get strong on hitting our mark? What intention should we focus upon?
2. The action card, Unconditional Love (Mary Magdalene): Our intention should be focusing on unconditional love. What is unconditional love? How can we practice unconditional love in our daily activities? Saying is indeed easy, by loving everyone and everything. One of the easy ways to practice unconditional love is to seeing good in everyone and everything; finding light in the darkness.
3. The achievement card, Peace (Eireen): As we focus our intention on unconditional love, seeing the light in everything and everyone, we will be grounded and firmed on our vision, goal and dream we have set. And there will be no worry, as everything will then work our beautifully.

Prayers: “Dear God and Goddesses, thank you for helping us to stay focused in our vision, goal and dream, by keeping strong on our original intention that is by practicing unconditional love, that is by seeing the good in everyone and everything, so our vision, goal and dream will work out beautifully. Thank you and Amen!”

<Corinthians 13:4-7>

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

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